‘You’re not allowed to have male friends’: Jealous Bf Puts an Ultimatum on His Gf Who’s Used to Having Male Friendships, She Decides to Leave Him

In the world of dating and love a lot of things can be misconstrued. Past traumas and feelings of betrayals entangled with love, fun, and good times. How can trust be worked on in a condition where someone is too stubborn to fully let go? 

Though we all have insecurities, they shouldn't be the dominant source of decision making, motives, or boundaries in any relationship. The crux of the insecurity is with the individual and their past, and it's up to their partner to be the one to help them through it. 

The line between reality and perception becomes blurred, thinned out. When you see A everyone else sees B, or vice versa. Alternatively, everyone else sees what you see, and you know it's not in your head. There's nothing worse than thinking you're in the relationship of your dreams, and he or she turns out to fulfill your nightmares. This is when it's time to leave, but until then, working on trust and security in relationships is always key.