30+ Married Women Wish They Asked Their Spouse These Questions Before Saying 'I Do'

Women, welcome to the wild ride of love, commitment, and reality! This thread is full of honest insights from over 30 married women who've been there, done that, and are here to share their wisdom with us. These women swear that by asking the right questions before saying "I do," you can avoid those unexpected surprises and (hopefully) ensure a smooth journey down the aisle. 

I'm not married yet, but you can bet I'll sit my fiancé down and read off a few of these questions before the big day. It's easy for us hopeless romantics to get caught up in the honeymoon phase, but you might not realize what you're getting yourself into down the line. Like have you thought about joint bank accounts, caring for your parents as they age, and, I don't know, what the thermostat should be kept at?! The latter is always an ongoing debate in my house. 

These women share practical tips and heartfelt advice on the conversations they wish they had with their partners before getting hitched. So, whether you're a bride-to-be or a seasoned wife, let's explore the questions that matter the most when it comes to making a marriage last.