'It's time you step up as a stepmom': Woman Who Wants Nothing to Do With Kids Marries a Man With 3 Children, Baffled When He Suggests His Kids Move In With Them

I don't know about you ladies, but I believe that when searching for a life partner, especially for marriage, it's absolutely crucial to have a clear idea of what you want and don't want in a lifelong relationship. Understanding your values, goals, and expectations is a key step in the process of finding someone who aligns with your vision for a happy life-long partnership. 

Being upfront about your intentions, preferences, and deal-breakers is critical. It's like creating a blueprint for the kind of relationship you want to build. That's why you have to express your needs and desires openly and honestly from the start. This includes topics about money, real estate, and most importantly - kids. Do you want to have kids? How many? How will you raise them? Will you raise them at all?… 

And that brings me to today's Reddit story. This one is… something. I won't spoil any of the details for you but what I will say is this is the perfect example of why we need to be upfront and never overlook the red flags!