Realizing you and a friend are growing apart can be difficult to process. That's why u/IndependentLady22 took some time to write down her concerns about her BFF, who she's realizing she may have to leave in her past.
Six years is a long time to be friends with someone. You get to know everything about each other's lives, friends, relationships, family, and even work drama. You probably have tons of memories together as you grow over time. Some friendships last forever… but others are only meant for a season of your lives.
While you may be BFFs with someone for your whole life, sometimes you realize that you've been friends with someone just because you were in the same place at the same time. Like maybe you and a friend had classes together at school that you studied for all the time. But then when you grab a coffee together a few years after school's finished, you realize you don't have much to talk about anymore. Other times, you might realize that you want better from the people in your life. Maybe you suddenly realize that over time, your friendship has started to deteriorate. It seems like this OP realized that she wasn't happy in her friendship, but only after she visited r/mildlyinfuriating to vent about a vacation gone wrong.
OP detailed all of the reasons why this girl's trip was not a good time, and commenters gave her some good advice. You can check out the entire story below, then read a work story.
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