'He had no intention of going': Introvert is hurt that his BF didn't invite him on trip, BF says it 'doesn't make sense'

Although this couple has been together for a while, they seem to have some communication issues that need addressing. 

In a post to r/amiwrong, a guy going by the name u/blunderous wrote to get some opinions on the relationship blunder he's currently going through. Basically, the OP travels with a few friends annually to hang out, and this time, he's traveling to two different cities. Instead of asking his introverted BF if he also wanted to come along, the OP just assumed he didn't want to go. The OP even booked a flight before mentioning it to the BF! In his defense, the OP claims that he assumed his BF wouldn't want to go at all. But then he's surprised that his BF has hurt feelings. 

The introverts of Reddit appeared in the comments to come to the BF's defense. They talked about how they appreciate being invited to events, even if they're certain they can't or won't go. I'm stunned that the OP could plan the trip and buy plane tickets without any mention at all to his BF. Even if couples travel apart, as the OP wrote, you should still probably give your S.O. the head's up that you'll be flying off to a trip with your pals for a few days. 

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